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I would rather be ashes than dust. I would rather my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze, than it should be stifled in dry-rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, with every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet. - Jack London 寧化飛灰,不作浮塵。 寧投熊熊烈火,光盡而滅;不伴寂寂朽木,默默同腐。 寧為耀目流星,迸發萬仗光芒;不羨永恒星體,悠悠沉睡終古。 - Chris Patten, the last Governor of Hong Kong, quoted in Hong Kong Policy Address 1996 (the last address before 1997 handover to China)

Wednesday, September 10, 2025

RIP: Charlie Kirk (shot dead on Sep 10, 2025)

 

RIP Charlie Kirk. I admire your courage to stand on the frontline facing left-wing populations, to debate and educate the youth what you believe is right, till to end of your life. I felt heartbreaking for a loss of such a new star.

"I may not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."

I may not fully agree with you but you convinced me why the current mutated left-wing agenda is ruining not only your country but also the western civilization. I see rationality from your speech, and witness vision in your eyes. You are a true warrior, a true patriot, Charlie

Thursday, September 4, 2025

The Cultural Shift at Boeing and Apple: From Product Excellence to Financial Focus

The Cultural Shift at Boeing and Apple: From Product Excellence to Financial Focus

Introduction

Boeing and Apple, two titans of their respective industries—aerospace and consumer electronics—have long been celebrated for their innovative products and engineering prowess. Both companies have historically set benchmarks for excellence, with Boeing leading in aeronautical engineering and Apple revolutionizing technology through iconic products like the iPhone and MacBook. However, a notable similarity has emerged in their trajectories: a cultural shift from prioritizing product excellence to emphasizing financial performance, driven by leadership changes focused on maximizing profits and shareholder value. This article explores this shared trend, its implications, and the lessons it offers.

Giants of Industry

Boeing and Apple are global leaders with immense influence. Boeing, founded in 1916, has built over 100,000 aircraft, including iconic models like the 747 and Air Force One, cementing its reputation as a cornerstone of aerospace innovation. Similarly, Apple, established in 1976, transformed consumer electronics with products that blend design, functionality, and innovation, boasting a market capitalization exceeding $3 trillion by 2025. Both companies have historically thrived on cultures rooted in engineering excellence and creativity, delivering value to customers through groundbreaking products. Yet, their shared pursuit of financial excellence under new leadership has reshaped their priorities, often at the expense of their core values.

Cultural Shift: From Product to Profit

Boeing's Transformation

Boeing’s culture was once defined by a rigorous engineering ethos, where safety and innovation were paramount. Engineers held significant decision-making power, ensuring products met exacting standards. However, the 1997 merger with McDonnell Douglas marked a turning point. Leaders from McDonnell Douglas, known for a cost-cutting, bureaucratic approach, assumed key roles at Boeing, shifting the focus toward financial performance. This shift was epitomized by former CEO James McNerney (2005–2015), who prioritized stock buybacks and cost containment over research and development. From 2013 to 2018, nearly 80% of Boeing’s free cash flow went to buybacks, diverting resources from innovation.

The consequences were stark. The 737 MAX crashes in 2018 and 2019, which killed 346 people, exposed a culture that prioritized speed and cost over safety. Internal messages revealed a “hard-deadline, bottom-dollar mentality,” with employees lamenting a leadership disconnected from engineering values. The grounding of the 737 MAX cost Boeing an estimated $20 billion in fines, compensation, and legal fees, with indirect losses exceeding $60 billion due to canceled orders. Recent efforts under CEO Kelly Ortberg, appointed in 2024, aim to restore an open, safety-focused culture, but employee surveys suggest skepticism about meaningful change, with only 82% responding to a 2025 survey that Ortberg admitted would be “brutal to leadership”.

Apple’s Evolution

Apple’s culture under Steve Jobs was a “power culture,” characterized by relentless innovation and top-notch excellence. Jobs’ demanding leadership drove employees to create products that redefined industries, but it also created a high-pressure environment where only “A-list” employees thrived After Jobs’ departure in 2011 and death later that year, Tim Cook took over as CEO, steering Apple toward a less combative, more collaborative culture. While Cook maintained Apple’s innovation edge, his leadership emphasized operational efficiency and financial performance, aligning with shareholder expectations.

This shift has been both a strength and a challenge. Apple’s revenue and stock price have soared, with the company achieving record profits under Cook. However, critics argue that Apple’s culture has become more risk-averse, with fewer groundbreaking innovations compared to the Jobs era. The focus on iterative product updates and services like Apple TV Plus prioritizes profitability over revolutionary design. For instance, Apple’s organizational culture still enforces secrecy and excellence but has transitioned from a “tough-guy macho culture” under Jobs to a “work hard, play hard” model under Cook, which some see as less daring. This has raised concerns about whether Apple can sustain its creative legacy without Jobs’ visionary drive.

Shared Trends and Consequences

Leadership-Driven Cultural Change

Both Boeing and Apple experienced cultural shifts driven by leadership changes that prioritized financial metrics. At Boeing, the influx of McDonnell Douglas executives and subsequent leaders like McNerney introduced a Wall Street-driven mindset, sidelining the engineering culture that had defined the company. Similarly, Tim Cook’s leadership at Apple, while successful financially, moved away from Jobs’ high-risk, high-reward innovation model toward a more stable, profit-focused approach. In both cases, new leaders reshaped corporate values to align with shareholder demands, often at the cost of customer-centric innovation.

Impact on Performance

The shift toward financial excellence has yielded mixed results. Boeing’s focus on cost-cutting led to catastrophic safety failures, a 50% drop in shareholder return over five years, and a loss of market share to Airbus. The company’s 2024 losses neared $12 billion, compounded by production challenges and a 10% workforce reduction. Conversely, Apple’s financial focus has been a boon for investors, with consistent revenue growth and a strong market position. However, the lack of revolutionary products has sparked debate about whether Apple’s culture still fosters the disruptive innovation that once defined it.

Erosion of Core Values

Both companies have faced criticism for drifting from their core values. Boeing’s engineering-driven culture was undermined by a “shut up and cover up” mentality, where employees feared retaliation for raising safety concerns. Apple’s shift toward a less combative culture has improved employee morale but risks diluting the creative intensity that fueled its early success. In both cases, the pursuit of short-term financial gains has strained the balance between profitability and long-term value creation for customers.

Lessons and Future Outlook

The experiences of Boeing and Apple underscore the delicate balance between financial performance and cultural integrity. Boeing’s challenges highlight the dangers of prioritizing profits over safety and quality, particularly in high-stakes industries like aerospace. The company’s ongoing efforts to rebuild trust through cultural reform, including leadership training and employee engagement, are critical but face skepticism due to past failures. Apple, while financially robust, must ensure its culture retains the innovative spark that differentiates it from competitors like Google and Samsung.

For both companies, a return to customer-centric values—safety and engineering excellence for Boeing, disruptive innovation for Apple—could restore their legacies. Boeing’s new leadership under Ortberg is pushing for a more open, collaborative culture, but tangible results will take time . Apple, under Cook, must balance profitability with bold innovation to avoid complacency. Both cases demonstrate that corporate culture is not just a buzzword but a driver of long-term success, influencing employee behavior, customer trust, and market performance.

Conclusion

Boeing and Apple, despite their different industries, share a critical lesson: a cultural shift toward financial excellence, driven by leadership focused on shareholder value, can erode the core values that made them industry leaders. Boeing’s safety crises and Apple’s perceived innovation slowdown illustrate the risks of prioritizing profits over product excellence. As both companies navigate their futures, their ability to realign culture with customer-focused values will determine whether they reclaim their legacies or continue to pay the price for cultural missteps. 

Thursday, August 21, 2025

社保是在劫富濟貧嗎?打工人跟資本家真的是對立關系嗎?馬克思主義為何行不通?

 

As the video is produced in Mandarin, I also write Chinese in this blog instead.

在影片的最後, 老周說了以下的東西打動了我。

“在中國根本就沒有什麼有產階級和無產階級,其實在這片土地上只有兩種階級,紅色特權階級和賤民。強大如馬雲,在紅色特權階級面前,他的渺小跟你我比起來並沒有太大的區別,也就是大家對自己命運的掌控力只取決於紅色階級要不要弄你。

所以,年輕人,認清楚真正剝削你的人是誰吧,是那些一開局就拿走了70%蛋糕的人,而不是那些給你發工資的資本家。

你們其實只是同一個戰線上的,你要知道戰勝不了敵人並不可恥,最可恥的是被敵人忽悠成工具人去和你的隊友做鬥爭。認清楚自己真正的敵人,即便你們依然反抗不了強權,最起碼不要被人給賣了還在幫人數錢吧,最起碼不要被剝削了還在為他們歌功頌德吧!”

我對這個些被中共賣了還當自己父母的人感到可恥, 可恨 和 可惜,他們的人生真的到死的一刻都不知道自己是被自己相信的人出賣,這個點是他們唯一的安慰。

Tuesday, August 19, 2025

Monday, August 18, 2025

我想跟你好好說話:賴佩霞的六堂「非暴力溝通」入門課 (賴佩霞)

[Book Review]



《我想跟你好好說話:賴佩霞的六堂「非暴力溝通」入門課》是賴佩霞以美國心理學家馬歇爾·盧森堡(Marshall Rosenberg)的「非暴力溝通」(Nonviolent Communication, NVC)理論為基礎,撰寫的一本實用溝通指南。該書旨在幫助讀者在親子、夫妻、職場等各種人際關係中,通過有效溝通建立和諧關係,減少衝突,找回自在與快樂的人生。以下是書籍的核心內容總結:

主要內容:

  1. 非暴力溝通的核心理念
    • 非暴力溝通強調以同理心和誠意進行交流,專注於「讓人生更美好」,而非執著於「誰對誰錯」。
    • 盧森堡的理論認為,衝突源於未被滿足的需求。通過理解彼此的感受和需求,可以化解矛盾,建立更緊密的關係。
  2. 四個核心步驟: 非暴力溝通包含四個基本元素,賴佩霞以淺顯的方式介紹:
    • 觀察:客觀描述事實,不帶評判。例如,「我看到你晚回家」而不是「你總是遲到」。
    • 感受:表達內心的真實感受。如「我感到孤單」(感受)而非「我覺得你不關心我」(責怪對方)。
    • 需求:明確自己的需求,例如「我需要安全感」。
    • 請求:提出具體、可行的請求,而非要求,如「你可以在晚歸時提前告訴我嗎?」
  3. 兩種人生觀的對比
    • 書中將人分為兩類:一類執著於對錯,容易因不如意而爭吵,陷入情緒低谷;另一類追求美好人生,專注於傾聽、學習和誠懇表達,進而擁有更平靜的心靈和更緊密的關係。
    • 賴佩霞鼓勵讀者轉向後者,通過用心經營溝通來創造幸福。
  4. 改變溝通習慣
    • 賴佩霞強調,改變溝通方式需要練習和耐心。通過學習非暴力溝通,讀者可以逐步擺脫攻擊性語言,培養傾聽和同理心,從而改善關係並提升自我幸福感。
書中有不少NVC應用的例子,以下作為分享:

1. 親子關係:處理孩子不聽話

  • 情境:孩子放學後不寫作業,一直玩手機,家長感到生氣。
  • NVC應用
    • 觀察:我注意到你放學後一直在玩手機,還沒開始寫作業。
    • 感受:我感到有點焦慮和無奈。
    • 需求:因為我希望你能有足夠的時間完成作業,並保持學習進度。
    • 請求:你願意在玩手機前,先花30分鐘寫作業嗎?我們可以一起設定一個時間表。
  • 效果:避免直接責罵(如「你怎麼這麼懶」),讓孩子感受到被尊重,願意合作,減少親子間的緊張氣氛。

2. 夫妻關係:化解爭吵中的情緒

  • 情境:配偶因工作壓力晚歸,另一方感到被忽略,爭吵即將爆發。
  • NVC應用
    • 觀察:我注意到你這週有三天晚上超過10點才回家。
    • 感受:我感到孤單和有點失落。
    • 需求:因為我很需要我們的關係中有更多陪伴和聯繫。
    • 請求:你願意這週末抽一個晚上我們一起吃飯或聊聊嗎?
  • 效果:用同理心表達感受和需求,而不是指責對方加班,讓對方更容易敞開心扉,促進彼此理解。

3. 職場溝通:與同事協調工作

  • 情境:同事未按時完成共同項目的一部分,導致進度延誤,你感到挫折。
  • NVC應用
    • 觀察:我看到我們的項目報告還缺少你負責的那部分,截止日期是明天。
    • 感受:我感到有些壓力。
    • 需求:因為我希望我們能按時完成,讓團隊表現更好。
    • 請求:你今天能抽出時間完成這部分嗎?或者我們可以一起討論如何分配工作?
  • 效果:避免直接批評(如「你為什麼拖延?」),讓同事感受到合作氛圍,願意積極參與。

4. 婆媳關係:處理敏感話題

  • 情境:婆婆頻繁給予育兒建議,讓媳婦感到壓力,關係緊張。
  • NVC應用
    • 觀察:我注意到你最近幾次提到孩子的飲食和作息方式。
    • 感受:我有點困惑和壓力。
    • 需求:因為我想在育兒上找到平衡,也希望我們的關係更輕鬆。
    • 請求:下次有建議時,我們可否一起討論孩子的需要,找到適合的方式?
  • 效果:用溫和的方式表達感受,避免對抗,幫助婆媳間建立更和諧的對話。

5. 朋友關係:處理誤解與衝突

  • 情境:朋友因你取消聚會而生氣,傳訊息表達不滿,你感到被誤解。
  • NVC應用
    • 觀察:我看到你傳訊息說對我取消聚會感到失望。
    • 感受:我感到有些難過,因為我很重視我們的友誼。
    • 需求:我希望我們能坦誠溝通,彼此理解。
    • 請求:我們可以找個時間聊聊那天的情況嗎?我也想聽聽你的感受。
  • 效果:以同理心回應朋友的情緒,避免爭論誰對誰錯,促進誤解的化解和關係修復。


賴佩霞在《我想跟你好好說話》中特別強調「同理心」在非暴力溝通(Nonviolent Communication, NVC)中的核心角色,並在相關章節深入探討如何透過同理心促進有效溝通與關係修復。以下是有關「同理心」章節的核心內容總結,聚焦於其定義、應用及實踐方法,並結合書中的理念進行說明:

同理心章節的核心內容

  1. 同理心的定義
    • 賴佩霞引用盧森堡的觀點,將同理心描述為全心全意地傾聽與理解對方的感受和需求,而不帶評判、建議或試圖「修復」對方的情緒。
    • 同理心不是同情(pity)或認同對方的觀點,而是站在對方的視角,感受到他們的內心世界,進而建立連結。
  2. 同理心的兩大面向
    • 對他人的同理心:用心聆聽對方的言語和情緒,理解他們的感受和背後的需求。例如,當朋友抱怨工作壓力時,不急於給建議,而是說:「聽起來你真的很疲憊,是因為工作量太大了嗎?」
    • 對自己的同理心:在溝通前,先覺察自己的情緒和需求。例如,當你對某人感到生氣時,先問自己:「我現在的感受是什麼?我需要什麼?」這能避免情緒化反應,保持冷靜。
  3. 同理心在NVC中的應用
    • 同理心是NVC四步驟(觀察、感受、需求、請求)的靈魂,尤其在「感受」和「需求」階段。透過同理心,我們能更準確地理解對方的內心,並以溫和的方式表達自己的需求。
    • 書中提到,同理心能化解衝突,因為它讓雙方感到被聽見和尊重,從而降低防禦心理。例如,當孩子生氣摔玩具時,父母可以用同理心說:「你看起來很生氣,是因為玩具拼不好讓你挫折了嗎?」而不是責罵。
  4. 實踐同理心的技巧
    • 專注聆聽:放下自己的預設立場,避免中斷或急於回應。賴佩霞強調,真正的聆聽是「心在場」,專注於對方的話語和情緒。
    • 反映對方的感受與需求:用自己的話重述對方的情緒和需要,確認理解正確。例如:「你是不是因為我忘了回訊息而感到失望?」
    • 避免常見誤區:如立即給建議、否認對方感受(「沒什麼好難過的」)或轉移焦點到自己。這些會阻礙同理心的建立。
    • 練習自我覺察:在對話中,隨時注意自己的情緒反應,若感到不耐煩或想反駁,先深呼吸,重新聚焦於對方的需求。
  5. 真實案例
    • 書中分享了一個親子案例:一位母親因孩子不願上學而焦慮。透過NVC的同理心練習,她先傾聽孩子說:「我討厭學校,太無聊了。」母親回應:「你感覺很無聊,是因為課堂內容讓你提不起興趣嗎?」這讓孩子感到被理解,願意進一步分享真正的原因(例如同學關係問題),最終找到解決方案。
    • 另一個案例是職場中,當同事抱怨主管不公平時,主角用同理心回應:「聽起來你很失望,因為你希望工作成果被公平認可?」這讓同事冷靜下來,願意討論如何改進,而不是繼續抱怨。

同理心的價值與影響

  • 修復關係:同理心讓對方感到被尊重,減少衝突中的敵對感。例如,夫妻爭吵時,若一方能先表達對另一方感受的理解,爭執往往能轉為建設性對話。
  • 提升自我幸福感:對自己和他人展現同理心,能減少內心壓力,培養內在平靜。賴佩霞強調,同理心是一種「心靈的連結」,讓溝通雙方都感到被滋養。
  • 實用性:書中提供簡單練習,如每天花5分鐘練習傾聽家人或朋友,專注於他們的感受和需求,逐步內化同理心習慣。

Sunday, August 17, 2025

Zero to One: Notes on Startups, or How to Build the Future (Peter Thiel, Blake Masters)

 [Book Review]

Zero to One by Peter Thiel, co-authored with Blake Masters, is a business and philosophy book that argues for creating radically new innovations ("going from zero to one") rather than iterating on existing ideas ("going from one to n"). Here’s a concise summary of its key points:

  1. The Power of Monopoly: Thiel emphasizes that successful businesses should aim to create monopolies by offering unique products or services that dominate their markets. Unlike competitive markets that drive profits to zero, monopolies allow for sustained innovation and profitability. Examples include Google’s dominance in search or Apple’s in premium hardware.
  2. The Importance of New Thinking: Progress comes from creating something entirely new, not just improving what exists. Thiel contrasts "vertical" progress (new technology, like the internet) with "horizontal" progress (globalization or copying existing models). Startups should focus on breakthroughs that redefine industries.
  3. Four Characteristics of a Monopoly: To build a monopoly, focus on:
    • Proprietary Technology: Offer something 10x better than competitors (e.g., PayPal’s payment system).
    • Network Effects: Products that become more valuable as more people use them (e.g., Facebook).
    • Economies of Scale: Businesses that get stronger as they grow (e.g., software companies).
    • Branding: A strong, unique identity (e.g., Apple’s design ethos).
  4. The Last Mover Advantage: Instead of being the first to market, aim to be the last mover—the company that creates the definitive solution in a space, capturing the market for the long term (e.g., Tesla in electric vehicles).
  5. The Role of Vision and Planning: Thiel critiques the idea of "lean startups" that pivot frequently, advocating for a clear, bold vision. Great companies are built by founders with a definite view of the future, not just reacting to market trends.
  6. Secrets and Discovery: The best opportunities lie in uncovering "secrets"—truths about the world others don’t see. Thiel encourages entrepreneurs to seek out these hidden opportunities, as most obvious ideas are already exploited.
  7. Founders and Culture: Strong, idiosyncratic founders are crucial for a company’s success. They shape a unique culture that aligns the team toward a singular mission (e.g., Elon Musk at SpaceX).
  8. Sales and Distribution: A great product isn’t enough; effective distribution is just as critical. Thiel stresses that startups must master sales, marketing, or partnerships to scale, citing PayPal’s viral growth tactics.
  9. The Future and Optimism: Thiel contrasts definite optimism (planning for a specific, better future) with indefinite optimism (assuming progress happens naturally). He urges entrepreneurs to take responsibility for shaping the future through deliberate action.
  10. The 7 Questions for Startups: Thiel proposes seven questions every business must answer:
    • Can you create breakthrough technology?
    • Is now the right time?
    • Will you have a monopoly?
    • Do you have the right team?
    • Do you have a way to deliver your product?
    • Is your business defensible 10–20 years out?
    • Have you identified a unique opportunity others don’t see?

Core Message: To build a transformative, lasting company, focus on creating something truly unique, dominate a niche market, and plan boldly for the future. Competition is for losers; aim for monopoly through innovation.